Thursday, 13 September 2012

IS IT EVER OKAY TO DATE A FRIEND'S EX?


Hiya! I got a message yesterday from one of my readers and i thought to share it with everyone just to get your input on the said topic.
"is engaging in a relationship with someone your friend once dated the ultimate betrayal? or is/are there circumstances that could make it acceptable?
Please do leave your comment below...

14 comments:

  1. Hmmm...dis is a delicate matter 2 be honest. One d one hand its okay 2 say it shldnt happen bt on d oda hand, its okay to say it shld.
    Nothing is set in stone; so I'm of d opinion that it depends on d conscience of both parties and d circumstance surrounding it.
    Personally tho, I can't roll wiv a guy a friend has dated cos I'm sure me and d babe wldve gisted about it and dats js gooey

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    1. what if u like the guy n u kw he likes u too? i get u sha..

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  2. See ehn...forget all these i cant date my friends ex, who u go date before? your enemy? In life, we meet people, what if thats d person that your heart want? you will now say that because your friend don date am before? No way? its high time we wake up and stop living all these novel and "Hints and Hearts magazine" life.

    Date your friend sef, and date d ex too, afterall na you get your money and your body....lol

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    1. lolz...sometimes, we have to create boundaries in life in order not to offend others.

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  3. On k pe danuuuuuuuuuu.if u like,date the friend mama,papa or even them gateman.lol

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  4. It depends. Think you would have to ask is there any possibility of your friend and there ex getting back together? Also on what terms did their relationship end? Will it damage your friendship? Will it make it awkward for your friend? I think if the answer is yes to any of them, then I would say you can't. Otherwise, why not....

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  5. Abdul Scott-lucas Babatunde13 September 2012 at 09:06

    @Adebayo James Adegoke: Agbaya ni e o...loll! Tobi Adenuga: i fnk it is not too gud as it myt severe ur r/ship wiv ur fwend.

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    1. well as Tom rightly said, it dependson the relationship btw the parties involved..

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  6. i support u jare @Adebayo James: like i said e no matter joor, what matters most is that at least your ex knows her. which makes trying to find out about her easier...lol

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  7. Well d mata strong bt I dnt see anytin wrong wit it cos d keyword is EX so no p.pple dey marry who don born before n so on y can't u date ur frnd's ex as far he/she doesn't call ur frnd's name in bed sha!!!

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